Pat yourself on the back...

Somewhere in the world at sometime, someone woke up and said, you should not bask in your accomplishment because it makes you appear narcissistic.
Ok so yes...it could be  when that's all you do or all you talk about...but I'm thinking about the normal person  or mum (as in my case).
Well, I want to state that it's okay to think about where you are in your life, think about what you've done thus far in your life's journey and give yourself a pat on the back. We all scold and beat ourselves up when we do stupid things so why can't we give ourselves praises when we do right.
I am definitely not the smartest of geniuses but I am a smart pick (I'll bet money on myself) and I tell myself that.
A friend of mine was talking a few days ago and she was reflecting on how long she had been out of college and she wasn't sure if she felt accomplished. I was shocked! How could she not feel accomplished? she is an awesome mom and wife and a pharmacist who got her PharmD despite several odds, two pregnancies and deliveries and taking care of two young children. I was proud for her.
This got me thinking about how we only celebrate our accomplishments in transient time and I just don't think it's fair to ourselves. I'm not saying be boastful and egocentric though.
The resolve, when I come home from work, cook dinner, feed my family, bathe the kids, clean up the house and all that, I will pat myself on the back and say well done momma you did good. :)

The beginning...

Teach us to number our days, that we may gain a heart of wisdom. Psalm 90:12

So, I just had a birthday and let's just say I have spent over three decades on earth.... anyways, it got me thinking and numbering my days...

This year, I had a baby, started working full-time and juggle life as a wife, mom to a toddler and a newborn as well as try to keep up being a business woman. Lord knows it has been crazy but I'm learning on the job.

This brings me to this blog. Amidst all my hats I discovered I had nothing for me so, here it is... I always wanted to blog so why not just do it.


I invite you to take this journey with me... I hope to encourage you sometimes, make you laugh sometimes, teach you a thing or two sometimes. I also look forward to be inspired, to learn, make friends all these without the limits of geography.

...Belleutchay

The Story of the Legs

First of all, I would like to dedicate this post to my buddy Miss T of Chic Therapy. I'm promise to blog regularly now. Its all kind of new to me sha so I'm still familiarizing myself with everything.

So, the story of the legs. I have seen several people have me and my husband's legs as their bbm dp and it just makes me laugh because they really do not realize that those are legs of people closer than they know lol. Someone told me the picture was the epitome of intimacy and love and in my head, I was like "hmm, it was just a great concept of a photographer with a keen eye". Truth be told, we have that intimacy and live, but, at the time, we were really just posing. If two legs together could speak such depth, I wonder how much we can actually speak with our lives. It goes to show that we have the ability to build life with our lives and give hope.

My mission to make someone smile with my thoughts and uplift that one person with my experiences. I will write about my newly acquired title of 'Mrs', my new environment and the fun things I encounter from day to day and you bet I'll write about some fashion and beauty.